I owe an apology. I promised to continue this story a couple of weeks ago. Here is the latest installment. For new readers, you can go back to read the first three posts on this subject if you wish.
As with the other posts, the primary source is Daddy, Come Home: The True Story of John Lennon and His Father by Pauline Lennon, John’s stepmother. Pauline based her book on Freddie’s never published autobiography that was written specifically to give to John after Freddie’s death so that his son would know the truth.
Back when Freddie Lennon had cordial relations with John’s Aunt Mimi, his wife’s sister, he arrived home from sea and immediately went to Mimi’s house to visit his five year-old son. Mimi told Freddie that John had just gone to bed, and that it was best not to wake him. She said Freddie should spend the night there and visit with John the next morning.
Freddie was awakened in the morning with a jubilant John, who was dancing and shouting and jumping on his bed. He was overjoyed to see his father. Freddie asked John if he would like to go out with him for the day.
“Oh yes, Daddy, just us two,” John said, gleefully hugging his father as they went down the stairs and yelling to his Aunt Mimi over and over again, “Daddy’s taking me out today.”
Freddie had already made up his mind that he was taking John to the beach at Blackpool where they would stay with the family of Billy Hall, Freddie’s friend. The pair spent a joyous first week together and Freddie said over the years that John was totally happy for that entire week. John enjoyed doing things with his father from the moment he woke up in the morning until the moment he went to sleep.
The two would begin each morning with a run together on the beach. It was during one of these runs in the sand that a terrifying incident occurred that stayed with John for his entire life. John ran ahead of Freddie, whose gaze at his son was compromised for a split-second while he lit a cigarette. John fell into a deep gully of sand and totally disappeared from view.
Freddie ran up and down the beach frantically screaming John’s name and stopped when he realized he had to listen for the boy’s response. The cries of “Daddy, Daddy” directed Freddie to where John lay unhurt and most frightened in the gully.
Freddie then had to spend several weeks with Billy Hall in Southampton helping him with his business. John was sent to live with Sydney Lennon, Freddie’s older brother, and his wife Madge. Like Mimi and George Smith, Sydney and Madge Lennon were childless and adored John. When Freddie and John returned to Blackpool, Sydney was under the impression that he and Madge were to fully adopt John.
Freddie and John spent several more carefree weeks at the beach in Blackpool, enjoying each other’s company immensely. Freddie knew that his money would run out and that he wanted to hold onto John. Billy Hall recommended that he and Freddie set sail for New Zealand. Hall’s parents, who adored John, were relocating there and would look after John until Freddie got settled there. The Halls joined Mimi Smith and Sydney Lennon as interested parties in adopting the five year-old John Lennon.
The fateful day of Saturday, 22 June 1946 brought a shock to Freddie. That day he was finalizing John’s passage to New Zealand with Mr. and Mrs. Hall when a knock on the door brought surprise visitors: Julia Lennon, accompanied by boyfriend Bobby Dykins.
Julia said that she wanted John back. Freddie refused to allow Julia to take him back to Mimi.
Julia said that she and her boyfriend were settling down and that she did not think that Freddie could provide a good home for him while he was at sea.
Freddie was astonished when Julia did not object to his plans to take John to New Zealand. She said, “You must love him then”, and asked to see him one more time.
John said, “Hello, Mummy.” He had not seen her in over two months and his time with his father made her seem like a stranger. He climbed on Freddie’s knee and put his arms around his neck to signal to Julia that he was well cared for.
Julia got up and walked to the door, saying, “It looks as if he’s decided to stay.”
However when Freddie opened the door for Julia, John leaped up after his mother.
“Don’t go, Mummy, please,’ he sobbed, burying his head in her skirt and making as if to stop her from leaving.
Freddie did not want John to come from a broken home. “Look, Julia, for John’s sake let’s have another go,” he pleaded, hoping to mend the broken marriage so that he could give John a stable family life.
Julia flatly refused. He asked John if he wanted to come back with her or go to New Zealand with his father.
He promptly took Freddie’s hand and said, “I’m staying with Daddy.”
Julia silently walked out the door. She had not gone fifty yards when John, confused and not understanding what was happening, wrenched his hand away from Freddie and ran after Julia, calling back to his father, “Come on, Daddy.”
It was clear to Freddie that John had made his choice and he felt obligated not to fight it. He sadly asked Mrs. Hall to pack John’s things. John and Julia disappeared around the corner. Freddie would spend the next days walking on the beach remembering the great times he had there with John for nearly two months.
The day that Freddie lost John to his estranged wife, Julia brought John to stay with his Aunt Mimi, which turned into a permanent arrangement. June 22, 1946 was the day that five year-old John Lennon lost both of his parents.